Are you wanting to date with more confidence and feel more in control because you know what you want and more importantly what the relationship of your dreams is going to feel like? Then this Three Part Dating with Confidence series will assist you to begin to make changes in the way you believe, think and feel about yourself so you can begin moving towards fulfilling your love goal with confidence.
Confidence is the Biggest Attraction Factor
Confidence has been attributed to the greatest attraction factor for both men and women. So let’s start by becoming clear about what confidence is. Basically confidence is being comfortable in your own skin – confidence reflects what you think and feel about your abilities. Therefore, I know my worth, I know my life matters, I know how to promote my internal assets and more importantly I pursue my goals with passion and purpose. Confidence is not about trying to be like others – confidence is accepting yourself as you are and allowing your uniqueness to shine.
Know Your Worth
Knowing that your assets and contribution to the world are of value is one of the quickest and fastest ways to increase your confidence. But confidence is not something we can fake because basically it is a feeling we give out to others – people feel what we think and believe about our self. A common mistake many people make when they begin dating is that they focus on their external assets; their hair, going to the gym, losing weight, buying a new wardrobe, car, botox and the list goes on. And although good looks, sexy clothes and a great body may attract men and women to you it is no guarantee that they will fall in love with you to establish a long term relationship. Research informs us that men do not necessarily fall in love with the prettiest sexiest woman and not all women fall for the best looking guy or the one with the most money.
Tips to increase your Dating Confidence: